The Secret Sister Seduction Model

Here’s a model that can be incredibly helpful in increasing your joy and decreasing approach anxiety on the pitch.

When a guy approaches an attractive girl, there is a lot of pressure. I don’t care how much experience you have, you’re going to feel a little nervous.

Surely you have heard the old expression that “brave people are not without fear, they simply act in spite of fear”.

This makes sense when you read it, but think of all the times in the past when you were scared, but acted anyway. I’m sure you’ll remember that as soon as you STARTED acting out, fear was suddenly transformed into a feeling of exhilaration and vitality.

Before you act, your brain is screaming at you to back off. But as soon as he DOES take action, her brain realizes the stakes are at stake and fills her senses with the necessary juice to come up with the best possible response to the situation.

That’s why they call this the “fight or flight” mechanism. The same juice that puts your senses on alert can get you out of there fast, or get you into the game so you come out a winner.

In reality, there is a HUGE range of possibilities between “fight” and “flight”.

This applies to seduction just like anything else that has a potential negative outcome.

However, here’s a mind trick that can help reduce that anxiety significantly.

There is a theory in NLP that we all have these “parts”. It’s not really a theory, rather a model to help us resolve conflicts between these imaginary “parts”.

This can be useful when approaching a girl. Now, don’t go up to her and start talking about the various parts of her, just assume they’re there.

Imagine that you have four or five female “parts”. Like different people. One of those parts loves to be seduced, loves to make love, and loves new and exciting experiences. But his other parts are more protective. The “big sisters” who feel like it’s their responsibility to take down any guy who comes near.

Naturally, that “little sister” is often overwhelmed by her more protective older sisters.

Your job is to talk to that little sister that is inside all women. That younger sister who wants love, affection and seduction.

Your job is to talk to her, in that special way, that will overwhelm her with so much desire that she will stand up and ignore her elders.

In fact, you might see yourself as the Knight who comes to save the poor little sister, who is being held captive by her elders.

When you approach her, assume that the younger sister is there and that you have to help her escape. To free himself from the imaginary shackles of her restrictions.

One way that can help significantly is to program the qualities of an alpha male, at a deep level, within your subconscious.

This will give you the conversational flexibility and confidence to free her from certain doom.

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