Are you with the perfect man, but you need to figure out how to make him commit to you? The romance started off perfect, but now you’re afraid things will level off instead of moving forward? Do you want to make sure he really likes you before you trust him with all your heart? If you’ve been wondering how to get him to commit and haven’t figured out the answer yet, don’t worry. You are not alone! Read on to find out how to become your only love.
First of all, don’t think that you have to completely change yourself for him to commit to you. He wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t have some interest in you. So be confident in your own worth and demand respect from any guy you date.
It doesn’t hurt to be less available if the end result you’re looking for is for him to commit to a more serious relationship. Think about it, if he is with you all the time, how will he know what it feels like to miss you and want to be with you? Also, if you are constantly at his beck and call, it means that you do not have enough in your personal life.
Men love to chase women, but what about when they’ve been together for a while? Guess what? You can still make him chase you. All you have to do is continue to have high standards and not let him get lazy with you. If he keeps taking you to the same place on dates and you get bored, tell him you’re bored. If they’re always racking their brains thinking of ways to impress you, then they feel like they have to work hard to keep you interested. This will trigger the same emotion you felt when you were trying to get him to notice.
Never give your guy an ultimatum to commit or otherwise. On the one hand, he may just decide to take it and walk away because he doesn’t want to be pressured. Also, he may simply decide that he doesn’t want to be with someone who scolds him or forces him to do something he isn’t ready for.
So remember to take your time and don’t let him stop chasing you. You will be able to make him commit, all you need is patience and these little tips.