If someone came to the conclusion that they are in a relationship that is not very healthy, they could investigate what they could do to change it. By taking this approach, it will give them a chance to see if something can be done.
Most likely, there will be what you will have to do and then there will be the part that your partner must play. So if you’re both willing to do what needs to be done, it may only be a matter of time before this area of your life changes.
in dead end
On the other hand, one may find that their partner says they are willing to change, but that is all. This could be something that they end up saying more than once, making it clear that it’s all talk and no action.
At the same time, your partner might imply that your relationship is okay or might say that they themselves are not the ones who need to change. Either way, it will be very clear that your relationship will not improve; in fact, it is likely to get much worse.
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Break away
Then you can cut your ties with this person or you can continue in a relationship that is not serving you. If you keep going, it will allow you to heal and see what you need to do to find a more suitable partner.
On the other hand, if they stay with this person, they will be undermining themselves. If you stay with them, you may find that you are no longer emotionally connected to them.
It’s finished
The emotional part of you may have ended up shutting down to protect yourself from pain. Getting in touch with how they felt may have been too painful, especially since their partner is no longer responsive to their needs.
So they can live together, but it can be like they live a million miles away from each other. At this point, it will be a relationship that takes a lot from them and gives very little in return.
Internal conflict
It will be essential for your own sanity that you pluck up your courage and move on with your life. What will make this easier is if they seek support from friends and family, for example.
After all, you are not your own island; they are an interdependent human being. What can also help is to think about how much worse your life will be if you don’t break up with your partner.
A slightly different scenario
Now, if you’re in a dysfunctional relationship, it’s going to be bad enough, but it could be even worse if you’re with someone you’re very close to. What this could mean is that they are with someone they have been with before.
However, it won’t be someone you were with a few months or even a few years ago; it will be someone you had a relationship with in a previous life. On one level, being with this person will cause you all kinds of problems, but on another level, you may feel like you’re supposed to be together.
a strong attachment
You may have tried to improve your relationship and your partner may have tried too, but you will not have taken the relationship on a different path. If one does not see this person as someone with whom they have a past life connection, they may be long gone.
Being with this person will have a negative effect on their mental and emotional health, but another part of them will hold on. For this part of them, leaving this person could be seen as something that would cause the end of their life.
another perspective
If you were to open up to another person about what you are going through, you might end up telling them that you are addicted to this person. And that what keeps them together is anything but love.
After hearing this, one might dismiss what this person has said, believing that they simply don’t understand. Alternatively, this could have a profound effect on them, making them realize just how toxic their relationships are.
back to his senses
If this happens, one will be able to pay attention to what is happening now, not what happened in another life. Focusing on what is happening now and allowing this to dictate how you behave will be much better for your well-being than focusing on what happened a long time ago.
Or to be more exact, it will be much better than focusing on what is happening in another life that is also happening now, since the past and even the future are supposed to take place in the eternal now. In any case, it will be your current life that you must pay attention to and allow it to govern your decisions.
Awareness
If one can relate to this and can see that he is hooked on someone who is not a good match for him, he may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.
During this time, they may need to work through the trauma they experienced as a child, as well as the trauma they experienced in another life.