The most important thing in any relationship is communication. It is very important to communicate your needs and desires to your partner. With that said, before employing the code suggested in this article below, make sure you’ve tried to communicate thoroughly with your partner. If you have chosen to ignore what he said or have not tried hard enough to confirm the situation to your satisfaction, then use the code.
Alpha, Gamma, Zulu, Kappa. These are some of the words that were recited in the movie “Crimson Tide” by the main character Denzel Washington. These particular words spoken in combination were the launch code for a nuclear attack that could have wiped out humanity as it is now known. There is another code that is just as powerful. It can work universally in most situations and has the potential to change your life as you know it now.
This code can be used in many situations. Here are just a few examples: He has begun to take you for granted. He has become less interested in spending time with you. He is reluctant to commit to you. Let me explore an example a bit more… You know this guy who is so into you; he clings to your every word. He always wants to spend time with you and is always on time to pick you up. He showers you with love, kisses and gifts. He tells you how beautiful you are and he drinks you and dines. He tells you that he has plans to marry you. Suddenly this great man seems to disappear and you do not recognize the man who has replaced him. He barely listens when you talk and his idea of a date is sitting on a couch watching ESPN. He hasn’t done anything romantic or nice for you in a long time. He doesn’t even mention getting more serious or getting married anymore. You still want to be with him, but you’re sick of him and ready to kick him out. Before you close the door on this relationship, use the code.
Which is the code? The Code is a powerful tool that encompasses strategies that will help you regain power in your relationship. The codes make your partner sit up and notice you once more. Read on to find out exactly what the code is.
How do I use the code? Using the code is quite simple; you don’t need to do much at all. In fact, the opposite is true, you need to stop doing many of the things you’ve been doing. First things first, you have to stop calling him. This advice may sound crazy, but don’t turn off your computer or close the website. I know that advice can be hard to swallow; I never said that the code was going to be easy for you emotionally. You may have to suffer a bit in the process to get the desired result. Most importantly, you will have to plan even when you don’t feel like it. When was the last time he called you? Are you the one who is always picking up the phone to connect with him? You gotta change that, don’t let your fingers dial her number. Let to the start the next phone conversation if you never hear from him again then believe me when i tell you he is NOT the one. If he can’t do the common act of calling, how can you hope to have a future with this person? If he doesn’t call you back, it indicates that he doesn’t care/like/love you and he is not interested in having a healthy and successful relationship.
Not only should you not call him, but you should first start ending phone conversations. Have you noticed that he is the one who usually has to leave after only a few minutes of conversation? You have to start turning the tables. The next time you’re on the phone, let him know you have to go. Even if you don’t have anything important to do, go ahead and hang up the phone. It should be a point of concern for you if you can’t find anything to do besides talk to him. It’s time you found a hobby. If you can’t think of a hobby, start spending time with yourself. I suggest you read a book, take a bath, exercise, go to school, rent a movie, create a goal for yourself. Not only will you be happy with a hobby or spending time with yourself, but you will also be a more interesting person. If you are more interesting, he will be more interested in you. Your new hobby should not include planning the wedding for the two of you, you should let him know that your time is precious and your world doesn’t revolve around him and that you are self-sufficient.
Next step, let me invite you to your next date. You should not ask him out or on a date with you. It’s okay if it takes him a while to ask you out. Start making other plans with your friends, coworkers, or family. Hopefully, you haven’t alienated your friends by ignoring them once you got a man. BUT DO NOT wait for him to ask you out. If he asks you out on a day you already have plans, DO NOT cancel your plans. He will realize that if he wants to go out with you he will ask you in advance. A booty call does not constitute a date. If he invites you just for that, he is using you. If he asks you out, ask him what his plans are. If he mentions sex, let him know you have other plans. The third part of the code, which may or may not apply to you, concerns the giving of gifts. Please stop giving “just because gifts” if they are just one-sided. A man should not be with you just for what you can give him or spend on him. I have seen some women trying to buy a man’s love with gifts. If a man doesn’t care about you, doesn’t like you, or loves you, he won’t start just because you spend a lot of money on him. A man should be the one to give you because you are the trap. If you don’t think you’re cheating, contact our self-esteem counselor for more information.
In addition to refraining from giving gifts, you can also avoid some “niceness.” If you always go out of your way to get your clothes to the cleaners and pick them up on the way home from work,Stop. If you often clean your apartment and fold your laundry when you visit, stop. Do you do his grocery shopping for him? Stop! He needs to prove what he would miss if you weren’t in his life. Since this very well could be the case if he doesn’t start treating you better.
Now that we’ve discussed the things to stop doing, let’s go over the things to do. beginning making. It’s time for a mini makeover. Call your hairdresser, get a pedicure and go to the mall and update your look. Make sure you keep your mini makeup a secret from your guy. You want him to be surprised with your new look. Let’s say you would normally talk to him about a change of hairstyle. Now, he realizes that he is no longer aware of your every move. If you were to get a makeover without him knowing, he’ll wonder what else you’re doing without him knowing. He will realize that you are capable of making decisions without his opinion or knowledge of him. This will arouse curiosity. When he asks you to go on his next date, I want you to look absolutely gorgeous. This mini makeover is important because we often have a tendency in relationships to get carried away. We stop doing the things we did at the beginning of the relationship, like doing our hair or getting dressed for our dates. Now is the time to let him appreciate your beauty again. “Show him what you’re working with,” he may have forgotten how desirable and attractive you are. Hopefully, you’ll be able to get a few people’s attention while you’re with him. This will remind him that you are desirable to other men. He needs to be reminded of this so that he can feel a little threatened. It is good for him to know that another man is willing to take your hand from him if he is not willing to step up.
Your guy will start to realize that the dynamics of the relationship have changed. Whose reveal that you are using the code that would be a big mistake. If he starts to question your actions, it’s okay to play innocent. You will probably start to notice changes in it as well. You might start to see the guy you fell in love with before start to come back. When he starts doing nice things like he used to, praise him and let him know that this is how you like to be treated. After seeing that he is committed to the change, he can lower the code a bit. It is my recommendation that you continue with some of the techniques. Keep up with your appearance and find time for yourself. Once he starts treating you nice again, you can get on with your niceties. Now it’s okay to call him and ask him to hang out. If you see him going back to his old self, don’t hesitate to use the code again.
I have recommended the code many times and have also used it myself. I have never seen it fail. If it fails in your case, don’t feel bad. It just means it’s time to move on. You’ve done your part by talking to him and using the code. If he doesn’t respond after all this, then it’s time you found someone new.