If you are a college whore, then I hope you already know the information that I am about to share with you … if not, not only have you not obtained the results you really deserve in university, you are massacring your social value in the campus by using your campus pickup tactics.
The college game is NOTHING like the traditional cold approach. Let’s take a closer look at the traditional cold approach first: When you approach a woman in the traditional style, it is largely assumed that you’ve never met her before. Nobody in the club really knows each other. If she rejects you, it doesn’t matter because you will never see her again. You only have a limited amount of time for her to get to know you, so try to demonstrate higher value as much as you can so that she wants to get to know you better.
You probably know that none of this is true in a college setting. In college, everyone knows someone who knows you. You’ve seen a lot of the girls you get close to before, and as a result, you have a reputation that either helps your game or kills it. You can’t afford to put all your chips on the table and coldly approach a girl. If she rejects you, your social value decreases and there is nothing you can do about it. You have four years to meet many of the girls. If you stuff a bunch of DHV stories down his throat, he’ll look like he’s trying too hard.
So why is the college game different from the traditional game? Because the university is like a great tribe and the real world is not. The rules of the tribe are different.
Think about it … how long do you think Mystery could get away with his tactics in a caveman tribe ten thousand years ago? He might have taken some action once or twice, but sooner or later all the women would reject him and eventually he would have been kicked out by the true alpha males of the tribe.
The mystery of ten thousand years ago would have been an astonished nomad in the deserts somewhere …
Being social and getting girls was never about using tactics and snatching them. It’s about being a fun and fun group leader. It is about contributing to the group and taking care of all who make it up.
The social circle game is all about positioning. It is possible to position yourself within a social scene so that you are the high status leader and all the hottest girls approach you. No pickup line required … EVER.
The cold approach is great, but it has a time and a place. When I first discovered the community, I thought I would improve with everything. It isn’t, and thinking that way is very detrimental to your long-term success.
The cold focus in college makes you look bad for a number of reasons. Most importantly, a truly shortlisted alpha male doesn’t chase girls. The girls chase him. The mere fact that the cold is approaching a girl on campus is a gigantic DLV. At best you look like a seedy gamer, at worst you look desperate.
It is very abnormal for a girl to talk to a boy who is outside her social group. Even if you have enough game to attract her, college girls have an additional defense system. Unlike women in the real world, they are very concerned with maintaining their reputation within the social group. It is not socially acceptable for her to play with a random boy she does not know. The simple fact that you are a random guy triggers his defense.
The guys who have the most girls in college aren’t random whooping guys. He’s the guy who knows EVERYONE. The construction of a great social circle is fundamental in the university game. The fact is, you’ve probably played the social circle game before, but back then, you weren’t that good at it. Building a social circle has now become a science. You can get more information about it on my website.